Loved this column. Reminded me of when I did Feng Shui consulting and teaching. When I covered decluttering I told people to ask themselves three questions: Do I love it? Do I need/use it? Does it nurture me in some way? If they couldn’t answer yes to one of those questions it was time to move the item on. If they were still confused I asked Are you working for it or is it working for you? Relationships should be given and take. Sometimes you work for/help the other person, sometimes they are helping you, and if you are really lucky it is a good balance of both. But if you can’t answer yes to I love this relationship, I need it in my life for a positive reason, or it nurtures me — it is definitely time to move it on. In Feng Shui, we hold the belief that if you move something from your life something else will come in to take its place that is even better and more rewarding. I have found this to be true with relationships as well. Saying goodbye is really saying hello to a better and more rewarding opportunity. Thanks for the reminder!!