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You learn more about someone at the end of a relationship than you do in the beginning.
What is my intention for being in this relationship right now?
Can I speak openly and honestly about both my positive and negative feelings or do I hide them or suppress them?
Can I easily make a repair and forgive after I’ve been hurt or do I go silent and hold a grudge?
Am I able to take in a different perspective on something even if I think I’m right or is it essential that my partner ultimately agree with me?
Am I willing to listen non-defensively when I feel hurt and angry?
Do I understand what I need to feel loved in a relationship and do I realize that my partner might feel love in a different way than I do?
Can I honor and trust my intuition when something feels off or uncomfortable or do I override my self-trust to make my partner feel comfortable?
Do I put myself first in the relationship?
Do I show my partner the same courtesy I would show others?
Do I expect a return on all of my investments or can I give without expectation of receiving a similar or equal gesture?
Am I capable of nurturing and taking care of myself without feeling guilty or selfish?
Are my expectations of my partner realistic or are they based on my own standards of what I expect of myself?
Do I feel like I have unresolved issues that might get in the way of this relationship and its health?
Who are my relationship role models and are they positive or negative?
Am I content being alone and doing things by myself?
Do I make the time to give my relationship the time and attention it needs to thrive and grow?
Am I complete without my partner?
How well do I tolerate being alone or doing things alone?
Do I feel responsible for my partner’s happiness?
Do I know what’s most important to my partner in our relationship?
