Has your marriage gone from romantic to roommates?
Has your relationship been threatened with infidelity and betrayal?
Relationships are the perfect place to learn about the self.
“Only in relationship do you see the face of what is.” – Jiddu Krishnamurti
Cultivating and sustaining any kind of relationship is hard work.
If you are looking for couples therapy or counseling then you have probably exhausted all of your options to improve your relationship on your own.
Just because you can’t fix what’s wrong with your relationship, doesn’t mean that you are a failure.
The skills you need are not inherent, they are learned. You probably didn’t have very good role modeling, and you certainly didn’t learn about this in school.
Whether your marriage has been hit by infidelity, or you feel lonely in your relationship, couples therapy can be a great place to piece things back together.
If you want to be having more sex, to feel more supported or to learn how to effectively communicate with your partner, then you have come to the right place.
Your relationship should be thriving, not surviving!
Most likely the issues you are bringing to therapy are symptomatic of a much deeper problem.
My work with couples is founded on the very basic principle that everyone ultimately wants and deserves to feel loved, valued, appreciated and cherished.
Watch this video to learn more about doing couples therapy with me.
Unfortunately for many couples these needs tend to get suppressed or oppressed during the relationship. This could happen over time due to small hurts and fractures between a couple, or these natural human needs can get shoved to the side making way for daily responsibilities like work and children.
Successful relationships are built on a strong foundation of safety and trust. You want to know that your partner “has your back”, and to feel supported in every way.
If your needs are not being met in your relationship, you will experience a deep feeling of dissatisfaction, which quickly transforms into anger and resentment.
Waiting until things are irreparable is a huge mistake.
There is a point in time where the relationship will become too broken to fix.
